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Date: | Thu Oct 20 12:43:34 2005 |
Name: | Lydia Rumbaugh |
E-mail: | Beginningschildcare@msn.com |
Organization: | Beginnings Family Childcare |
Location: | Pine, CO |
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Date: | Sun Oct 16 14:35:50 2005 |
Name: | Anne E Hemingway Feuer |
E-mail: | Feuerfamily@hotmail.com |
Organization: | none that I wish to mention |
Location: | Miami, FL |
How the site was found: |
Saw an article in Miami Herald & bought a book |
Comments: | Alfie: I am a blast from the past, but I also work with
children, and have raised two daughters in the public schools down here
(though NOT at Beach Hi)... I'm writing now to encourage you to run for
office. Any kind of office. I know, you're busy, but I am so tired of
the people with brains shying away from leadership. You and Daniel Quinn
(author of Ishmael, My Ishmael, Story of B, etc.) are the most wise
people I know, and I've tried to encourage him also. We're considering
moving to Iceland or something if we have to endure any more of the war
excuses/fear inducing/out and out craziness of the people who've been
destroying our planet lately. Don't get me wrong, I think Hilary Clinton
could maybe handle it, and I've raised my daughters to be strong
advocates of peaceful resolution of conflicts, etc., but I'm sick of
KNOWING that there are wiser solutions to problems that are not brought
to the forefront. It's not just the field of Education that needs your
ideas, it's everyone, everywhere!
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Date: | Fri Oct 14 08:55:47 2005 |
Name: | Thomas Heinegg |
E-mail: | theinegg@northport.k12.ny.us |
Organization: | Northport Middle School |
Location: | Northport, New York |
How the site was found: |
see below |
Comments: | I met Alfie Kohn at a conference on cooperative
learning and he spoke about changing some of our competitive games e.g.
musical chairs. At the next conference, I gave him a picture of my 5
year old daughter and friends gleefully playing it at her birthday
party.
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Date: | Fri Oct 14 01:48:50 2005 |
Name: | Farida D'Silva Dias |
E-mail: | tutsiluv2@yahoo.com |
Organization: | Jeevan Community Centre, |
Location: | Goa, India |
How the site was found: |
Read Niel Davies article |
Comments: | I used to be in Kuwait - we met at earlier RT
conferences and missed you at the Dublin Conf. Have always found yr
presentations meaningful. Have returned back home to India and have
started a non=pofit community centre. Will be in touch for some. Will be
purchasing all of your books. Information in your articles is very
useful to my cause.Tks
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Date: | Fri Oct 14 01:48:41 2005 |
Name: | Farida D'Silva Dias |
E-mail: | tutsiluv2@yahoo.com |
Organization: | Jeevan Community Centre, |
Location: | Goa, India |
How the site was found: |
Read Niel Davies article |
Comments: | I used to be in Kuwait - we met at earlier RT
conferences and missed you at the Dublin Conf. Have always found yr
presentations meaningful. Have returned back home to India and have
started a non=pofit community centre. Will be in touch for some. Will be
purchasing all of your books. Information in your articles is very
useful to my cause.Tks
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Date: | Thu Oct 13 19:55:04 2005 |
Name: | Mary |
E-mail: | zois@bellatlantic.net |
Organization: | parent |
Location: | Massachusetts |
How the site was found: |
Schools our Children Deserve |
Comments: | Hey Alfie, any thoughts of writing an article about
tracking kids in middle school math according to ability? Seems that
just when math starts to get interesting, some kids are told that
they're not smart enough for it. Can you help us ? THANKS, from a parent
of 7th grader
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Date: | Thu Oct 13 17:46:18 2005 |
Name: | gary d. canterbury |
E-mail: | gcanterbury@middletowncityschools.com |
Organization: | |
Location: | Middletown Ohio 45044 |
How the site was found: |
Gary Stager. org |
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Date: | Thu Oct 13 13:14:04 2005 |
Name: | maria |
E-mail: | mari_big_red@yahoo.com |
Organization: | rochester city schools |
Location: | |
How the site was found: |
read unconditional parenting |
Comments: | why is disruptive behavior so prevalent in urban
schools?
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Date: | Thu Oct 13 09:32:27 2005 |
Name: | Cherie Grant |
E-mail: | frisco@dreamscape.com |
Organization: | Utica City Schools |
Location: | JFK |
How the site was found: |
internet search |
Comments: | I am designing and implementing an action research
project as part of my professional performance review this year. I have
always thought of myself as more progressive than my peers and some of
Alfie's constructs interest me to further explore them. I am also hoping
my investigation relieves my current frustration with my craft.
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Date: | Sat Oct 8 19:32:35 2005 |
Name: | Corinne Creel |
E-mail: | |
Organization: | |
Location: | CO |
How the site was found: |
I've been reading all of Alfie Kohns books and wanted to learn more. I typed in his name.... |
Comments: | I have been frustrated with the overuse of
rewards/awards in my childrens school. I finally decided to speak up and
in preparing to meet with our accountability committee I have come
across all of Mr. Kohns books. Ecerything I felt I was reading (with
references)... Thank-you!
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Date: | Wed Oct 5 17:57:28 2005 |
Name: | Meaghan |
E-mail: | Querry |
Organization: | Student |
Location: | Rexburg Idaho |
How the site was found: |
Internet |
Comments: | I would like to know who Alfie Kohn is. I would like to
read a biography of him. I would like to know where and when he was born
and where he went to high school and what jobs he worked. What lead him
to have such opinions of education.
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Date: | Wed Oct 5 14:46:13 2005 |
Name: | Stephanie Davis |
E-mail: | private |
Organization: | |
Location: | Colorado |
How the site was found: |
Looking for article to give a class. |
Comments: | Thank You. Free (relevant and good) information can be
hard to come by.
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Date: | Mon Oct 3 06:07:39 2005 |
Name: | Sara Bradley |
E-mail: | elf_queen26@yahoo.co.uk |
Organization: | |
Location: | england |
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Comments: | doing my dissertation on the use of rewards in the
early years of schoolingand whether they they have a detrimental effect
on the education the childrn receive. i found the articles listed on
this site extremely helpful and also see this issue in a new light.
thank you Mr Kohn.
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Date: | Sun Oct 2 16:11:01 2005 |
Name: | Mark Walker |
E-mail: | walkeram@cox.net |
Organization: | LMFT |
Location: | Texas |
How the site was found: |
Referenced on another site arout reality therapy |
Comments: | Thanks for your books. I just picked up a copy of The
Brighter Side of Human Nature. An invaluable addition to views of
ourselves and our children.
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Date: | Thu Sep 29 04:27:52 2005 |
Name: | Sean Curran |
E-mail: | spc169@psu.edu |
Organization: | Penn State University |
Location: | State College PA |
How the site was found: |
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Date: | Tue Sep 27 08:29:07 2005 |
Name: | Armen Pischdotchian |
E-mail: | pischdoa@netscape.net |
Organization: | |
Location: | |
How the site was found: |
By listening to NPR (On Point) |
Comments: | I'm reading Unconditional Parenting and boy am I glad I
came across this book. It has truely enlightening me and is already
helping me become a better parent.
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Date: | Tue Sep 20 08:07:05 2005 |
Name: | Pax |
E-mail: | paxll@yahoo.com |
Organization: | |
Location: | Washington, DC |
How the site was found: |
it's bookmarked! |
Comments: | Just read the 2003 article, "Almost there..." in my
research for an "Art of Discipline" seminar I'm facilitating. Besides
thanking Alfie profusely for it, I'd also like to "add one" to the "not
quite there" category: I've been in so many classrooms where the
teacher's approach to discipline actually, over time, undermines the
solid, child-centered, learning activities she introduces AND erodes
really good connections that she has with the kids. When will we learn
that our approach to discipline cannot be opposite from our approach to
teaching?
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Date: | Tue Sep 20 06:20:32 2005 |
Name: | Dave Beauchamp |
E-mail: | D.Beauchamp@sau47.k12.nh.us |
Organization: | Assist. Supt. SAU47 Jaffrey-Rindge NH |
Location: | |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | Enjoyed your article 9/7 ed.week thanks ...demanding
"relevance" in public education is like building sand castles...if you
don't keep your eye on it it goes right back to beach...
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Date: | Sun Sep 18 20:25:12 2005 |
Name: | Kelly Bethel |
E-mail: | bethelbkj@peoplepc.com |
Organization: | elementary teacher |
Location: | MO |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | I am doing a report for a Master's level Curriculum
class. Thanks for having all these articles in one place. Mr. Kohn, if
you read this, please email me as to what the MOST important thing/point
you would like me to share with my class during my presentation would
be. Thank you.
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Date: | Thu Sep 15 07:36:48 2005 |
Name: | Dr.Diane Miller |
E-mail: | drmomdm@aol.com |
Organization: | clinical psychologist (APA) |
Location: | |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | Imagine my relief-- when after 25 years of arguing for
the educational philosophy Alfie Kohn promotes-- I discovered his work.
I left New York City in the hopes of finding a more compatible
educational environment for my seven=year old son but have come to the
conclusion that our pessimistic adherence to behaviorism and dehumanized
competitiveness is everywhere in our land. My question to you, Alfie
Kohn and the like-minded, is there a school that you can recommend? I'm
willing to relocate pretty much anywhere. Thanks!
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Date: | Wed Sep 14 05:25:08 2005 |
Name: | Dorothy Rich |
E-mail: | dorothyrich@starpower.,net |
Organization: | |
Location: | |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | Dear Alfie: Your column--Getting Hit on the Head
Lessons should be required reading by every educator and parent. I have
always called it the "iodine theory of education"--it has to hurt kids
to do any good. You put the points well and can only hope someone, many
ones , are out there listening. Best. Dorothy Rich
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Date: | Sun Sep 4 13:58:24 2005 |
Name: | Lyn Bajaj |
E-mail: | lynbajaj@yahoo.com |
Organization: | Littleton Public Schools |
Location: | Littleton, CO |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | I am evangalizing the merits of Punished by Rewards
here in Colorado, and look forward to reading your newer books. Still
trying to determine where the line is between living within a system
that promotes test scores and grades, and also promoting a betterw ay of
assessment and more important, learning for our students.
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Date: | Wed Aug 31 22:44:57 2005 |
Name: | Soren Wuerth |
E-mail: | sorenwuerth@yahoo.com |
Organization: | Kushunamiut School Districk |
Location: | Chevak, Alaska |
How the site was found: |
fairtest.org |
Comments: | It is my first year as a teacher and I am guiding a
secondary language arts class in a school that is 98% Alaska Native
(Chup'ik). I read your book, Beyond Discipiline, just days before the
start of the school year. This windy, rural village is, like other
Alaska Native communities, in the unique circumstance of having Western
cultural values imposed on it through the modern school. Like other
Yup'ik Eskimo communities, Chevak residents still speak their Native
language, eat subsistence foods, and retain close family bonds. Although
it has a new, $23 million school, the town is destitute. Earlier this
summer, the community had IRS liens of almost $200,000 and almost had
its power cut off. Meanwhile, I am trying to create class community in a
school that, like most, has a punitive discipline plan. I have to ignore
everything I've been taught in graduate school, push aside the warnings
of fellow teachers, and ease my impulse for classroom "control" to
encourage students--who are themselves used to an institutional system
of "management"--to construct their own learning. It is very difficult
and I am alone in my approach. The school district's primary goal is, of
course, to have students pass the statewide "exit exams" and meet AYP.
It is the third year Chevak hasn't made its test targets and the state
is threatening sanctions. (For many students, English is a second
language.) In light of these problems, I'm having my students write
grant applications, start a newspaper, and develop a public safety team
(the community can't afford to pay a village public safety officer
anymore). It's a tough situation. But I'm trying. Thanks for your beacon
of light at the far end of the tundra.
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Date: | Sat Aug 27 21:16:21 2005 |
Name: | Erica Pritner |
E-mail: | dustbowldiva@yahoo.com |
Organization: | Yukon Public Schools |
Location: | Yukon, Oklahoma |
How the site was found: |
radio review |
Comments: | Always interested in Mr. Kohn's thoughts!
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Date: | Sat Aug 27 06:49:07 2005 |
Name: | glenn b wing |
E-mail: | wing@skybest.com |
Organization: | |
Location: | Sparta, NC |
How the site was found: |
presently reading "No Contest" |
Comments: | Thanks for writing an insightful book. Thank you glenn
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Date: | Fri Aug 26 20:47:35 2005 |
Name: | Marie Plumb |
E-mail: | mamamarie90@hotmail.com |
Organization: | Day Care |
Location: | West Valley City |
How the site was found: |
Invitation to a lecture |
Comments: | I would like some info on disruptive children who pout,
throw a tantrum because they can't get their way, they hide under
shirts, blankets or whatever until they can conform. They have a parent
who isn't very loving but says it all the time. She is too busy for
them, but they get soda and sweets all the time. The children need to
lose weight and the mother is also overweight. If you can help me that
would be wonderful. Thanks Marie
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Date: | Thu Aug 25 16:30:46 2005 |
Name: | Paul Waterlander |
E-mail: | waterlander@shaw.ca |
Organization: | Sooke District #62 |
Location: | Victoria, British Columbia |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | I would like to thank Alfie for the wonderful
presentation given in Vancouver for the British Columbia Teachers'
Federation. It is with much shock and dismay to find our province stuck
in the "Standards & Test mania" after many years of relative teacher
autonomy. It was also shocking to hear Alfie's pronouncement that he
felt the BC learning outcomes were some of the most stringent and
mindless he has ever seen! I guess after all these years of teaching in
one place you lose sight of where your system is in relation to others.
It was quite an eye-opener and a wake-up call that we teachers in BC
must fight this encroachment of our autonomy and resist these
"bean-counters" and remember that policies and laws passed by
governments do not have to remain...they can be changed. BC teachers may
be engaged in strike action in mid-September so wish us all success in
our fight to regain common sense in education!
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Date: | Tue Aug 23 08:45:13 2005 |
Name: | Phyllis Gilbert |
E-mail: | phyllisg99@hotmail.com |
Organization: | Durant schools |
Location: | Durant, OK |
How the site was found: |
by typing in Alfie Kohn |
Comments: | Thank God there is still some common sense "out there".
After 30 years in the classroom I am so disheartened to see what we are
doing to our young people. We have given them the idea anyone can FIND
anything(information) without having to think critically or read with an
inquiring mind. Stuff them full and they SHALL regurgitate.If
regurgitating is good that day and test scores are high that PROVES we
have a great school and are meeting the needs of our students. Baloney!
Our students deserve better, and it's our fault if they do not receive
it. Thanks for the site. I appreciate being able to "connect" with those
who truly understand what is happening to our public education system.
We are caught, as teachers, in the trap of top-down decision making and
the lack of understanding that a system cannot thrive or survive as long
as teachers feel as foot soldiers. Please excuse my rambling......
Phyllis Gilbert Durant, OK
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Date: | Sun Aug 14 12:33:28 2005 |
Name: | Kate Miner |
E-mail: | k8miner@kc.rr.com |
Organization: | High School teacher, grad student & mother of elementary child |
Location: | Overland Park, Kansas |
How the site was found: |
Search Engine - MSN |
Comments: | I'd like to ask a couple questions about the
"Accelerated Reading" program used in our district and in my son's
school. As a teacher and a mother, I am not sure I see the validity nor
the benefits of the program. What are your thoughts?
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Date: | Wed Aug 10 07:04:24 2005 |
Name: | John Widdicombe |
E-mail: | widdi@mhtc.net |
Organization: | School Board |
Location: | Mount Horeb, WI |
How the site was found: |
searched Alfie Kohn |
Comments: | I have greatly enjoyed many of your books. I'm hoping
to do my part as a layman in my community to improve the learning
experience for our children.
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Date: | Sat Aug 6 19:32:22 2005 |
Name: | B Baker |
E-mail: | bbaker@mpls.k12.mn.us |
Organization: | teacher |
Location: | Twin Cities Metro |
How the site was found: |
the book Punished by Rewards |
Comments: | Have any other EBD teachers read this book? I am
interested in hearing some thoughts about it and if anyone has had
success with Alfie's ideas.
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Date: | Wed Aug 3 09:32:40 2005 |
Name: | Sabrina |
E-mail: | peperette@hotmail.com |
Organization: | elementary school teacher |
Location: | Ottawa, Canada |
How the site was found: |
searched "Alfie Kohn" |
Comments: | Beyond Disciline and Punished by Rewards really delve
into people's behavioural management motives like no other books I've
read. I can't wait to finish both books and I look forward to reading on
what strategies I can apply in my classroom. I must admit, though,
reading the first few chapters was very hard to stomach at first since
they challenge fundamental views and responses teachers have towards
their students. That's what made them such a great read-they were a true
wake-up call for me.
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Date: | Mon Aug 1 13:08:04 2005 |
Name: | kris peugh |
E-mail: | jepeugh@ccser.com |
Organization: | elementary school teacher/grad student |
Location: | spokane.WA |
How the site was found: |
email address on jacket of Kohn's book |
Comments: | The subject of my Master's Thesis is, "How do letter
grades impact learning motivation in students?" In my study I would like
to use a valid and reliable inventory to measure students' (ages 6-12)
motivation for learning. I'm having some difficulty finding a good tool.
Can you direct me to some good resources?
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Date: | Wed Jul 20 05:34:54 2005 |
Name: | Tom Killeen |
E-mail: | tkilleen@hcstonline.org |
Organization: | Hudson County Schools of Technology |
Location: | North Bergen, New Jersey |
How the site was found: |
Attended workshop yesterday |
Comments: | Alfie, I was in the workshop yesterday (July 19) at
Kean University. I spoke to you before your presentation and mentioned
to you that while we were watching a video tape on how to interpret test
dat, I started to read your book and was pleasantly surprised that
everything you wrote was the exact opposite of what was being said on
the tape. You mentioned New Jersey doing away with the SRA process. I am
the assistant principal for an alternative high school in Hudson County,
New Jersey, a highly urban area. Most of our students have gone through
the SRA. This past June, 80 students graduated, and 60 of them are going
on to college, either 2-year or 4-year. This is great since most of them
had either dropped out or were at-risk of dropping out. If NJ does away
with the SRA, where are they going to be? Anyway, I have long been a
proponent of everything you spoke about yesterday. When I teach a class
(English), I tell the students on the first day of class not to worry
about their grades. I'm the one who puts the grades in the book, and all
they have to do is to give a good effort and concentrate on learning. It
works. Grades mean nothing to me -- learning does. Thanks for a great
afternoon. Tom Killeen
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Date: | Sun Jul 17 09:43:27 2005 |
Name: | frances manners |
E-mail: | smfmhm@aol.com |
Organization: | parent of an eight year old girl |
Location: | new york city, ny |
How the site was found: |
i purchased Alfie Kohn's book, Unconditional Parenting |
Comments: | Conditional love and parenting is the way I grew
up...and as parents, both my husband and I have had no other role
models. After skimming your newest book at Borders, I was so grateful. I
am very open to this way of parenting-with trust and respect, but I'm
not so sure my husband will be. I wondered if you will be giving
workshops for parents in Manhattan? Also, have you or will you consider
training parents to conduct workshops to other parents? Also, what about
offering family retreat weekends where you could give workshops, etc.
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this very important book.
Frances Manners
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Date: | Thu Jul 14 08:38:37 2005 |
Name: | Hugh |
E-mail: | jarse.hugh@gmail.com |
Organization: | |
Location: | |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | Great
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Date: | Wed Jul 13 08:46:49 2005 |
Name: | abby brooks |
E-mail: | brooks_abi@hotmail.com |
Organization: | |
Location: | West Hartford, Connecticut |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | I have just discovered Unconditional Parenting - what a
terrific find!
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Date: | Wed Jul 13 06:58:42 2005 |
Name: | Jenny |
E-mail: | jherman78@yahoo.com |
Organization: | |
Location: | Lincolnton, NC |
How the site was found: |
Internet search |
Comments: | I am a college student pursuing licensure in Middle
Grades Education. Your work has been discussed in several of my courses.
Thank you for providing teachers, parents, and administrators with
information and encouragement to "save our schools" from high stakes
testing.
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Date: | Sat Jul 9 13:17:20 2005 |
Name: | Susan |
E-mail: | wncchef@yahoo.com |
Organization: | Mother and Autisic Teacher Assistant |
Location: | WNC |
How the site was found: |
Reading Punished by Rewards |
Comments: | I am in complete awe of this book, only on chapter 8. I
am using plenty of praise both in school and home. Rethinking my
parenting and teaching, I can not wait to finish this book and pick up
another of A. Kohn's to brighten my perspective. Thank you for the
challenge.
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Date: | Fri Jul 8 15:30:11 2005 |
Name: | Willow Foster |
E-mail: | willow.alfiekohn@fostergroup.org |
Organization: | |
Location: | washington state |
How the site was found: |
back flap of Unconditional Parenting |
Comments: | Thank you for putting into words what I feel in my
heart! I am a first time mom, daughter is just approaching 6 months old.
On a recent trip to visit relatives, I cannot say how many times I heard
something to the extent of, "enjoy it while you can! as soon as she's 15
you'll lose all control" and all I could think was if my husband and I
are trying to control our daughter when she is 15 (or at any age!), we
are doing something terribly wrong. Here's to treating our children like
fellow human beings and breaking vicious cycles!!
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Date: | Thu Jul 7 09:54:03 2005 |
Name: | Richard Murray |
E-mail: | rrmurray@msn.com |
Organization: | |
Location: | Wilmette IL |
How the site was found: |
search for "Alfie Kohn" |
Comments: | |
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Date: | Wed Jul 6 17:36:18 2005 |
Name: | Reverend Edwin Goldberg, Marriage Clergy |
E-mail: | edgoldbergnewyork@yahoo.com |
Organization: | Interfaith Big Apple |
Location: | NYC |
How the site was found: |
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Comments: | Be blessed with the good and beauty of
Life................in honor of Mary Agnes Ward, Teacher PS 219,
Brooklyn, NY
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Date: | Wed Jul 6 12:03:18 2005 |
Name: | Steven Machlay |
E-mail: | chefrah@sbcglobal.net |
Organization: | |
Location: | |
How the site was found: |
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Date: | Wed Jul 6 07:06:14 2005 |
Name: | Rosia A. Parker |
E-mail: | rparker@csu.ces.edu |
Organization: | Central State University |
Location: | Wilberforce, Ohio |
How the site was found: |
internet |
Comments: | |
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Date: | Tue Jul 5 13:36:56 2005 |
Name: | Frank jellison |
E-mail: | captjell@aol.com |
Organization: | none |
Location: | canton Ohio |
How the site was found: |
Type in dian Ream |
Comments: | Love your interviews by dian
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Date: | Mon Jul 4 03:14:34 2005 |
Name: | Felicia Ybarra |
E-mail: | fenoma1701@peoplepc.com |
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read unconditional parenting |
Comments: | i really enjoyed unconditional parenting. i would love
to learn more on how to use it. not sure i quite understand, maybe i
need to read again. thanks for a new view on parenting.
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Date: | Sat Jul 2 06:37:00 2005 |
Name: | Deron |
E-mail: | marvind3@msu.edu |
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Location: | An American in China |
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search engine |
Comments: | In reards to competitin in schools: I have been a
teacher and adminstrator in schools for six years now, and have been
extremely dissatisfied with the structure of the schools. I sat and
observed several "award cermonies" and other such competitions with a
great sense of unease. It was not until recently I began to understand
the nature of competition in schools and the negative impact it had on
most of students. I duly keep the competition out of my classroom;
however, I remain alone in my endeavers - at the end of the year, I am
always asked by those ordering the awards, "who was your best student?"
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Date: | Fri Jul 1 09:52:39 2005 |
Name: | Pat Downing |
E-mail: | Pat@feelgoodparenting.com |
Organization: | Feel Good Parenting |
Location: | Asheville, North Carolina |
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referred by Bob Collier of Parental Intelligence |
Comments: | Hi Alfie, Thank you for the sanity of your advice to
parents. It is so refreshing - and far too uncommon. We would like to
help spread your message to as many parents as possible. May we use a
few of your articles on our website and in our ezine? Sincerely, Pat
Downing www.feelgoodparenting.com
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Date: | Fri Jul 1 06:01:21 2005 |
Name: | Steven Machlay |
E-mail: | chefrah@sbcglobal.net |
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